How To Touch A Girl

By: Ziggy Coventry

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Understanding how to touch a girl the right way can be overwhelming. Girls are different than guys, they like to be touched and held in specific ways. Also, adding to the confusion is the fact that girls are different from each other. Some girls like it when guys move fast and are a little rough, while others want the guy to take it slow and be gentle. This is why having a few tips on how to touch a girl is probably a good idea.

  1. Look for signs that she wants to be touched. If she does not want to be touched, then it does not matter what your magic little fingers are capable of, she simply will be turned off. You have to make sure that she wants you to touch her before you make a move. If she sits close, reaches for your hands, leans in next to you, these are signs that she wants you to move in. If she keeps you at arms length and has her arms crossed, then you probably have some more work to do.
  2. Start small. A big mistake that many guys make is that they immediately start fondling and groping a girl. You have to start small when you touch a girl. Begin by holding her hand, or putting your arm around her shoulder. Then see how she responds. Sometimes just the simply act of holding hands or embracing each other can be extremely romantic.
  3. Pay attention to how she responds. Just because a girl let’s you touch her, doesn’t mean that she wants you to do anything else. So just be gentle and pay attention to how she responds to your touch. If she wants to do more than just hold your hand, she will let you know. Sometimes when you touch a girl, she will respond by showing you how she likes to be touched by touching you in very specific ways.   
  4. Talk to her about it. There is no shame in asking a girl how she likes to be touched. In fact, this may just be the only way to really understand how to touch a girl. Every girl is different. So unless you come out and ask, how can you really know? 
Posted on: Mar. 05, 2011