How To Use A Vibrator Properly On A Girl

Have you ever wondered how to use a vibrator properly on a girl? You’d think it’d be simple since this little battery-operated contrivance does most of the work, but there’s a bit of an art to using a vibrator when you’re applying it to someone else. While there are really no steps to use a vibrator with a girl, there are some distinct things you, as a guy, should know when pleasing your lady friend.

  1. What kind? There is more than one type of vibrator known to the world of kinks and pleasures, and it will do you well to understand which one your girl would prefer. The various forms these trembling love machines come in (no pun intended) are as follows: G-spot, bullet/egg, traditional slim, rabbit, dual-action, beaded, wand, and less commonly used pencil-thin urethra vibes. Most of these serve the same purpose, but they’re just in different shapes, textures, and sizes.
  2. In or out? You can use a vibrator in two ways…inside or outside the body. This means that you can employ a toy for penetration of different orifices, or you can use them to stimulate external surfaces like the nipples and clitoris. G-spot and dual-action vibes are the style mostly used for penetration, while the traditional and egg vibes are usually used for clitoral stimulation, which will be discussed in the ensuing steps.
  3. Teasing. You don’t want to go right for the crown jewel – use a vibrator on other areas of your lady’s body to get the engine warmed up, so to speak. Use it on her nipples, between her thighs, and just above and around her vagina. This will drive her nuts with sexual desire and make subsequent intimate events a lot hotter.
  4. Primary target. The spot most vibrators are made to focus on is the clitoris, which, for those who don’t know, is a little mound of flesh roughly the size of a pencil eraser buried under a woman’s outer labia. Here’s something most guys don’t know, though: That little nub of tissue has twice the number of nerve endings in it as the head of a man’s penis, and this means it’s unbelievably sensitive. After the aforesaid teasing, putting a vibrator against your lady’s clitoris on the lowest setting will probably put her on cloud nine. However, be sure to watch your girl’s body language – too much stimulation can sometimes be too much to handle or even painful.
  5. Slooooow. Be sure to bring a vibrator into the mix if you aren’t in any hurry to do other things, like getting your girlfriend out of the house before your wife comes home. It’s best to use one very slowly and on the lowest vibration and work it up to the highest speed. This could mean a mind-blowing orgasm for her, along with the possibility of more than one orgasm.
  6. Different for everyone. The circumstances and stimulation under which orgasm will occur differs between women—some can easily have G-spot orgasms, some require very specific placement, speed and pressure to orgasm, and some can’t go off at all. Same goes for clitoral stimulation, so if you can’t make your lady reach climax, don’t be disappointed—odds are very good she enjoyed herself thoroughly and is impressed with your vibrator prowess.
  7. Don’t limit yourself. Who says you need just one vibrator? Go nuts—buy several. Get a dual action vibrator for vaginal and anal stimulation, and get an egg vibe for her clitoris; use them at the same time. There are also vibrating nipple clamps available, as well as double-bullet vibrators with stretchy cock ring attachments so you can wear the vibrator while moving beyond foreplay.
  8. Ask! There is no shame in letting your lady demonstrate to you how she likes a vibrator to be used on her. Observe and learn her technique—after all, no one knows how better to make her have an orgasm than she herself.

 

 

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