How To Use Vibrator While Having Sex

By: Ryanick Paige

Break Studios Contributing Writer

If you are adding a vibrator to your sex life you may be interested in reading how to use a vibrator while having sex. Many people believe that a vibrator is used in place of actual sexual intercourse. However, a vibrator can be used to enhance the sexual experience between a man and woman or whatever the case may be. Using a vibrator while having sex can heighten sexual pleasure beyond the point of intercourse alone.

To use a vibrator while having sex, you will need:

  • A vibrator
  • A willing partner
  • Lube
  • Wipes for clean up
  1. Preparation. Before bringing out the vibrator during sex you may want to discuss using one with your partner. Although most people are game for adding a little spice to their sex lives, a more conservative partner may be a little freaked out by it. An insecure partner may begin to feel as if they aren’t enough for you.
  2. Getting use to it. If you have never used a vibrator during sex before, take it slow. If you start out hot and heavy while using the vibrator during sex, you won’t have anything new to try tomorrow.
  3. Erogenous Zones. Just as if you were using the vibrator while masturbating, use the vibrator on your erogenous zones. These zones can heighten your excitement with a simple touch image of what a little vibration can do.
  4. Clitoris. While you are having sex, place a vibrator on your clitoris. Not only will you feel the vibrations, but your partner will as well. Start out on a slow speed. The high speed can have a numbing affect on woman and too rough on a man.
  5. Anal. Although most men and women won’t admit it, the vibrating around the Anus can and usually does have a stimulating effect. Penetration isn’t normally necessary. It could be the slight vibration or just the thought of venturing into the unknown. 
Posted on: Oct. 14, 2010