How To Win Her Heart

Learn how to win her heart, even if it’s a challenge. The fondness you have for her continues to grow, but are the feelings mutual? Well, that doesn’t matter, that’s just and obstacle you’ll have to overcome to win her heart. You will need to open up to her and show her how strong, affectionate and funny you can be. Let her see there is more to you than just a handsome guy, but a man deserving of her love.

1. Knowing how to communicate is essential. Learning how to communicate and learning how to listen are two important things to winning her heart. She will want to know she can share her thoughts and dreams with you with ease. She will also want you to open up to her about your aspirations. If you want to win her heart you have to be more than just her boyfriend, but her best friend.

2. Confidence is important. Show no sign of weakness. If you allow her to use you as a door mat, she will. She will want a strong take charge kind of man. Not the kind of man that will let her walk all over him. If she doesn’t respect you, which she want if you allow this behavior. You want have the confidence to win her heart.

3. Learn to make her laugh. Be outgoing. There is a time to be serious and a time to be silly. Laughter is good for the heart and soul. Being a stuff shirt will only make her, if anything just want to be your friend. If you want to be more you have to show it.

4. Be giving and affectionate. There is a difference in being affectionate and smothering; make sure you know the difference. Females like mental and physical attention; pay her compliments give her gentle hugs when you see her. Just don’t constantly have your arm around her or wanting her in arms reach of you. You feel she always needs to be sitting under you when you are together. That seems too much like you are marking your territory; which would be a turn off for her.

5. Don’t pressure her. Regardless of what it is, don’t put any undue pressure on her. If you tell her you have strong feelings for her but she is not ready to tell you how she feels, that’s okay. Telling her you are ready to be in a deeper relationship with her doesn’t mean she is to. You have one or two options either move on or be patient with her and wait until she is ready.

6. Find out what she likes. Show her you are putting in the extra effort to win her heart. This is not just a physical connection you are trying to make with her, but a mental and emotional one.

7. Get to know her friends. Getting along with and having a relationship with her friends is important. Let her know if the relationship grows there want be any conflict, when the two of you get together with some of her closest friends and yours as well.

8. Romance her. Share romantic evening with her wining and dining her. You don’t have to take her to the biggest and fanciest restaurant in town. One way to her heart is to show her you can throw down in the kitchen. There is nothing sexier and appealing then a man in the kitchen cooking up a storm. Fix her a nice meal over candle light and see how far it gets you