How To Win Her Over
The object of your desire has been playing hard to get so long you're beginning to suspect she isn't playing, you need to figure out how to win her over. Women can be complicated and confusing, but they don't need to be. They're human just like you and want some of the same things from a significant other as you do.
- Get your life together. Be honest with yourself. It's going to be tough to win her over if you have no job, live at your parents' house and can't be bothered to bathe regularly. Do you want to date someone who's out of shape, unattractive and broke? Neither does she. Not only will taking care of yourself and your finances make you more attractive, it will also make you more confident. Always ask yourself if you would date yourself.
- Don't get desperate. Plenty of guys get so panicked and forlorn when they can't seem to win her over that they start acting a little crazy. You've probably known women who've had to deal with guys who called a hundred times a day, showed up places uninvited or did other stalker-like things. Don't be that guy. It's not going to make you seem committed to her; it's going to make you seem like you should be committed.
- Listen to her. Sure she's hot. You're not the only guy who noticed. Set yourself apart from the pack and win her over by paying attention to what she tells you when you two are talking. Don't just stare at her boobs; make a mental note when she mentions things that she likes or stuff she wants to do and bring those things up in later conversations.