How To Win Your Wife Back
If your wife has left you against your wishes, you need to know how to win your wife back. Assuming there is any hope of reconciliation, you will have to work very hard to get your wife back. And your hard work will likely involve showing her true examples and proof of why you should get back together.
- Work hard to figure out what went wrong. Did you mess up or did she change somehow? Your strategy to get your wife back will largely depend on this difference, but either way your goal is to win your wife back by showing that you are a perfectly compatible couple and that you love each other.
- Once you know what went wrong, brainstorm how you can fix the problem. If you cheated, you will need to prove to her that you are trustworthy and that it will never happen again. If she left because the "spark" wasn't there, win her back with romance. For deeper issues, consider seeing a marriage counselor or trying to find a middle ground on certain issues.
- Do the necessary actions that will serve as the proof you will need to win your wife back. Get a stable job and secure finances if you were too unstable. Go to a therapist to work out any issues you may have had. Plan out a romantic gesture for your wife if she thought that you didn't care enough. Just do not wait too long to do this--she may move on while you are working on your own issues. To avoid this problem, tell her of your intentions beforehand so she can witness your transformation for herself.
- Show her that you have changed, and that you are perfect for each other. After you have worked on your own flaws and have gathered proof of your commitment to her, talk with her and explain why you should be together. Logic combined with heartfelt sentiment should help to win your wife back.
- If talking and reasoning fails, try a grand romantic gesture. Make her a painting that symbolizes your relationship or your family. Hire a band or serenade her. Take out an ad in the local newspaper and use the space to tell her how much you love her. Just don't become a stalker--that is the wrong way to win your wife back.