Missionary Position Tips

Sex in the missionary position is sometimes frowned upon by kama sutra enthusiasts, but with some pointed missionary position tips, you can enjoy the ancient position more than ever thought. While every self-respecting sex partner should utilize more than just the missionary position, it can be a regular go-to if used correctly. Typically, partners begin with the missionary position because women appreciate initial face-to-face contact to validate the genuine interest you have in them beyond sex. You might even enjoy some face time, too. Therefore, the missionary position's reputation as a starting point remains legitimate. Here are some missionary position tips that will maximize pleasure for you and your partner.

  1. Control her legs. While in the missionary position, consider her legs as your own personal joysticks. While it is sometimes prudent to let them squirm as they please, there are ways you can maneuvre them to maximize pleasure. The extent you can manipulate her legs will depend on her flexibility, so keep in mind that every maneuvre has its limitations. As mentioned earlier, it is best to start in a way that makes her feel close to you. Start face-to-face with your hands on her waist, upper body, face or some combination of the like. Starting at her hips, slowly move your hands down her legs until you are grasping her ankles. This is when the most variety becomes accessible. How wide her legs rest apart will determine how much friction is created. If her legs are apart in a "V" position, there will be minimal friction. To create more friction, bring her ankles together until they are touching, putting both over one shoulder or holding them out in front of you. This will create a noticably greater amount of friction for you and her. To create the deepest penetration possible, gently move her ankles as far towards her head as is still comfortable for her. Then lean forward, thrusting into her at an almost downward angle. Going too deep for a particular girl is problematic (and possibly more painful than enjoyable), so gauge her response before attempting any drastic contortions.
  2. Mind the clitoris. How and when to incorporate stimulation of the clitoris is often perplexing to many guys, but in the missionary position, there is ample opportunity to explore. Every girl's sensitivity is different. Over-stimulation will result in discomfort, while under-stimulation will result in disappoinment. It is crucial to always pay attention to how your partner responds to your every move. The best approach is to start slow and build on her reaction. Begin with gentle, circular motions, applying light pressure with at least three fingertips to broaden the surface area. At this point, she will signal if she wants more focused attention to the area or let you know if it's too intense. Another way to test her clitoral tolerance is to gently guide her own hand to the area with yours. See what she does to herself and simply take it from there. Constant attention to the clitorous might not always be warranted. Some girls like firm pressure, some like minimal pressure and some prefer a combination of both. Pay attention and figure out what your particular partner requires.     
  3. Variety is key. A necessary dislcaimer in discussing the missionary position is that it should almost always be supplemented by other positions. People are either having sex to procreate, have a great time or both. At any rate, there is no reason that sex should be monotonous. If you are inclinced to only use the missionary position, push yourself to try others. It's not uncommon for a girl's most sensative areas to be best stimulated by different positions than men desire. If you neglect to try new positions, it will be impossible to find out what pleaures you and your partner most. On the other hand, there is nothing wrong with slow, single position sex once in a while.  The point is that any good sex life will involve variety, a willingness to experiment and heightened receptivity of your partner's needs.   

 

 

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