Oral Sex How-To

Men have started searching for "oral sex how-to" articles in order to make love better and keep the ladies coming back for more. Because few women reach orgasm from penetration alone, other means of stimulation are necessary. Many women enjoy oral sex, if her man knows how to do it correctly.

1. Remember the concept of safety first. If you have never had sex with a woman before, you do not know if she has any diseases that you need to know about. Unlike vaginal and anal sex, you cannot use a condom to prevent the transfer or HIV, AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases when having oral sex. You may consider trying to cut a shorter sleeve from a flavored condom, using a dental dam or wrapping your tongue in plastic wrap if you are determined to perform oral sex on a partner that has STDs. However, these methods do not ensure that you will not contact an STD.

2. Dive on in. There is no reason for you to feel intimidated when you have your head stuck between your lady love’s legs in the act of giving her oral sex. There are many parts of her vagina that you can please with a few laps or several slobbering passes of your tongue. You can use your tongue to explore into her vaginal cavity, give long, slow licks from front to back across her slit or you can tease her tiny clitoris with your tongue.

3. Keep moving. Avoid sticking to one area too long. If you increase her sensitivity too much in one area of her vagina, she may orgasm more quickly than you would like. Move around, flicking your tongue and sucking alternatively to give her a whole variety of experiences.

4. Get a little help. If your tongue or your jaws grow tired and you need to catch a breath, you do not have to stop giving her oral sex, just take a break and get a little help from her or your fingers. Take a break and use your fingers on her, with small flicks of your tongue across her clitoris occasionally. If you are having trouble holding back the lips of her vagina while performing oral sex, ask her to hold them back for you.