Passive Aggressive Personality Disorder

By: Claudine Williams

Break Studios Contributing Writer

A person with a passive aggressive personality disorder can make you feel guilty for asking for anything. When you want the passive aggressive person to do something, be it wash the dishes, or pick up a meal from grocery store, the person may act as though she doesn't mind, but passively sabotage you.

  1. Definition. People with a passive aggressive personality disorder act as though they are compliant and will submit to your wishes, but they usually don't come through in the end. These are the people who state that they'll work late to complete projects at work, but always call in sick on the very day that the project is due.
  2. Examples. People with passive aggressive personality disorder tend to forget deadlines, dates, and chores. If this person doesn't want her mother-in-law to be invited to your dinner party, he'll conveniently forget to mail the invitation. A girlfriend who behaves as though she can't wait to see you, but develops a sinus infection, or some other ailment that keeps her for coming over, may have a passive aggressive personality disorder.
  3. Treatment. Passive aggressive personality disorder can be treated with counseling. According to the University of Maryland Medical Center, counseling can help the passive aggressive person understand the behavior exhibited and change it. The passive aggressive person may appears as a stubborn person who tends to procrastinate or forget important tasks. These acts are simply a cover for the person's hostility. Passive aggressive personality disorder is a chronic condition, and it is classified as a personality disorder. 
Posted on: Apr. 22, 2011