Sex Without Ejaculation Explanation

Sex without ejaculation can be very pleasurable, especially for the woman. As long as you do not ejaculate, she has more time to reach orgasm. Learning how to have sex without ejaculation can be tricky, but it is possible to learn with some self-control. Normally, sex lasts about five to ten minutes, but if you learn to control ejaculation, it can last hours!

  1. Kegel exercises can strengthen the muscles used to control ejaculation. To do Kegel exercises, try stopping your flow of urine in midstream. Hold the urine for a count of ten. After a while, you will be able to control the flow of urine easily and this will build up the muscles used to control ejaculation.
  2. Don't fantasize during sex. Sexual fantasies make men reach orgasm faster, so just focus on your partner and their needs. Having sex without ejaculation is a great way to show your partner she comes first, literally.
  3. Think about something other than sex. In the same way sexual fantasies excite you, thinking about boring everyday things will hinder your ability to orgasm too soon. Your brain is in control of whether or not you can have sex without ejaculation.
  4. Take deep breaths. Recognizing when ejaculation is imminent and doing some deep breathing will help you take back control and stop the process. Using this technique will help extend the pleasurable time before an orgasm occurs.
  5. Stop all movement to delay ejaculation. If you feel yourself about to ejaculate, stop any movement. Once the urgency passes, resume having sex without ejaculating.

Tips:

  • You may have heard that it's not safe for a man to stop ejaculating, but that's not exactly true. Many men rarely ejaculate and their health is fine. However, it has been shown that some ejaculation prevents an enlarged prostate. Ejaculation removes prostatic fluid and shrinks the prostate.
  • Having sex without ejaculation is not an option for every man.

 

 

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