Talking Dirty Examples

Talking dirty examples aren’t as tough to come by as you might think. If you’ve never engaged in dirty talk before, you should keep it basic. Just describing what’s happening or what’s going to happen can be dirty and naughty enough to get both you and your partner really revved up.

1. “I want to get inside of you.” Tell your partner how badly you want to have sex with her. Even if you’re in the middle of foreplay and sex is a ways off, just letting her know that you’re anticipating it can get her aroused.
2. “Do this to me.” Tell your partner what you want. This is a great dirty talk example because if you’re partner is into it, she’ll actually do what you want her to do. Knowing that she’s pleasing you will turn her on and likely make her join in on the dirty talk. Some variations of this dirty talk example include “I’ll do this to you,” which involves describing what you want to do to your partner, and “I’m doing this to you,” which involves telling your partner what you’re doing as you do it.
3. “I like it when you do that.” When your partner starts doing something you like, tell her that you like it. This will make her do it more and will likely invoke some dirty talk of her own, such as “oh yeah, you like that don’t you?”
4. “I fantasize about this.” Describe your naughty sexual fantasies to your partner. This dirty talk example involves using your imagination. You can come up with scenarios that can arouse you both but that you know would never actually happen, such as introducing a third person to your lovemaking or performing oral sex in a public place.
5. “Remember when we did this.” This dirty talk example involves describing a sexual situation to each other that really happened. For example, if you had sex in a public bathroom once, telling the story together - without sparing the sexy details - can be a great way to talk dirty and get each other aroused. You can even act out some of the scenario you’re describing.