Threesome With Ex-Girlfriend: Bad Idea?

We all know that many men have dreams of having a threesome with an ex-girlfriend, but is it a bad idea? Suppose the opportunity arises with you, your current girlfriend and an ex girlfriend. What to do, what to do? Should you jump at this fantasy come true or should you run for the door as fast as you can run?

On one hand you may think that a threesome with these two girls would be good. After all, you already know both of their bodies, and you know what they like in bed. More than likely you stand a chance of actually being able to please 2 women at the same time. What could possibly be the downside to this situation? Well, pull up a chair and I'll be glad to detail each and every reason why a threesome with your ex-girlfriend would be a bad idea.

  1. Your current girlfriend will compare her body to the ex- girlfriend. She may become insecure or begin to suppose that you don't really want a threesome, but that you really want  your ex. Okay so that is screwed up, but who understands how women think?  The fact is a threesome with your ex will definitely alter the future of your current relationship.
  2. Your ex-girlfriend may see the fact that you can perform with her as a sign that you are still attracted to her and will see this as her chance to get you back. In turn, if that is not the case you will have to deal with being the bad guy who led her on and broke her heart, even after she sacrificed her "lesbianic" virginity to provide you with your fantasy of a threesome.
  3. You may end up with a bit of performance anxiety when actually faced with two naked women who expect you to pleasure them both. This will lead to not only two unsatisfied women, but also a feeling of impotence on your part that could affect your future sexual performance. Performance anxiety can hinder your activity a great deal.
  4. Where do you go from here? Suppose everything works fine, the experience is everything you've ever dreamed of,  and the three of you are happily sated sexual adventurers. What next? Is this going to be a regular occurrence? Are you going to avoid each other from now on? Is the ex going to be involved in your current relationship? Just like they say once you've had sex you don't go back to being friends. You will have crossed a line that now has three people with intimate knowledge of each other. Just how are you going to handle that?

Sure a threesome is a guys fantasy, but there is a reason it is a fantasy, and also a reason that most men who manage to have a threesome don't do so with girlfriends and ex girlfriends. A threesome with your ex-girlfriend is definitely a bad idea.

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