Tips On How To Ask A Girl Out
It never hurts to have a few good tips on how to ask a girl out. What is acceptable is always changing in the dating world so what is ok today, might not be good tomorrow. Keep yourself up to date with these tips.
- Approach her with confidence. The shy guy approach may be cute for the movies, but it doesn’t work so well in the real world. When you are asking a girl out, be confident, keep your head held high and maintain eye contact. Remember, confidence is not cockiness, don’t be rude, and don’t make her feel like she has no choice or that you are doing her a favor. She will no doubt reject you.
- Ask her face to face. Nothing is more pitiful than asking your friends or her friends to ask her out for you. This method barely worked in grade school so it won’t work now. Ask a girl out face to face, you may be nervous but you will be glad you did it yourself rather than depending on someone else.
- Don’t text her or email her for a date. When you want ask a girl out, don’t rely on electronics to get you though it. Asking her out on her Facebook wall or sending her a text are pretty tacky methods of asking a girl out. Those are great methods for confirming a date or reminding, but the initial asking should always be done in person. Try not to ask over the phone either, it will mean so much more coming from you in person.
- Ask her out with a plan in mind. If you ask a girl out and she says yes, she will want to know what you two will be doing. Have a plan in mind when you ask her out. Whether it’s the movies or a bite to eat. Have a few ideas in mind and be sure to ask her opinion. “I was thinking we could grab a burger and see a movie, what do you think?”Remember it is her date too so her input is vital.
Posted on: Jul. 25, 2010