What Do Guys Like In A Girl?

By: RTodd

Break Studios Contributing Writer

Guys look for and like a lot of different things in girls, and no one guy is the same just as no one girl is the same. Preferences will change between different guys, and there is a personality and style out there for everyone. There are a few common features that most guys look for in girls, and if it is possible to find a girl with all of these positive features then guys will probably find the girl extremely attractive.

  1. Be yourself  When we look for a girl, we do not want someone who is always acting a different part and never shows who she really is. You have probably seen guys and girls alike do some of this acting, and you have more than likely done it yourself. People tend to act differently around friends than they do around their parents, just as they act differently around the opposite sex. Once you start developing a relationship with someone, that person needs to be able to take off the mask for the relationship to work. Guys will find girls who can do this much more attractive than those who do not.
  2. Respect  Everyone looks for this in relationships, and guys definitely look for it in girls. Not only do guys look for girls who are respectful towards themselves, they also look for girls who are respectful to everyone. Respect is very important to most people and not having it can be a major flaw in a relationship leading to its downfall.
  3. Loyalty  Guys and girls both look for this in significant others, and guys definitely like it if a girl is loyal. Infidelity is something many people go through in their lives, and it is something nobody ever wants to experience. Being loyal is a commitment you should expect from everyone close to you and this certainly includes your significant other.
  4. Confidence  Guys look for girls who are happy with themselves and confident in their abilities. Guys want girls to realize that they are perfect the way they are. Lack of confidence in one's self is very noticeable and will cause guys to be hesitant to get close to girls because they will be worried about having to deal with baggage or difficulties.
  5. Happiness  Guys like to be around and look for girls who are happy. Guys do not necessarily need to have girls who are happy all of the time, but they are more attracted to girls who are in a good mood most of the time and are easy to get along with.
Posted on: Jun. 05, 2011