What To Do If My Girlfriend Wants To Have Threesome

It's a first class problem if you want to know "what to do if my girlfriend wants to have threesome." Many men would kill for the opportunity to be in the arms of two sexy women. If your girl is the one instigating a threesome, cover the ground rules and decide if this is something you want to do.

  1. Ask her what's up. If your girlfriend is introverted or shy and suddenly wants to make it with you and another woman, you probably have questions. Even if your girlfriend is adventurous, talking about the scenario is a good idea. If you are able to plan a threesome as a couple, it can stave off future problems. It's fair to want to know why your girlfriend wants to have a threesome, especially if she's asked before.
  2. Discuss the ground rules. Unless you are surprised by an unplanned threesome, it's best to discuss what the ground rules are. When your girlfriend wants to have a threesome, will she be the one who picks the other woman? Or do you want to have a say, too? Where will the threesome happen? Is anything taboo during the act? What happens afterward? Is the second girl a stranger or someone that you know? These are important questions to answer, so be thorough before a threesome happens.
  3. Follow through. Now that you've decided to have a threesome, you have to set up the time and place. Most importantly, you will need to find the second girl. Most men are very happy when their girlfriend wants to have a threesome. It's a man's fantasy. Make choosing the last piece of your threesome puzzle fun. If you fight over which girl or other logistics, the threesome may never happen. Make a plan and follow through.
  4. Tell her no. If threesomes are not your thing, you can tell your girl no. It's perfectly okay to decline the offer, as threesomes can sometimes spell trouble. The majority of men would tell you to get your head checked if you refuse, but most men haven't engaged in a threesome. Go with what feels right, even if your girlfriend wants to have a threesome. In the end, it's about what you can live with.

 

 

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