What Do Women Like In Bed?
To be a good lover, you’ve got to ask the question “What do women like in bed?” Unless you’re actively thinking about what your partner finds arousing, you’re not going to be meeting her needs or revving her up. Women are less vocal and usually more complicated than men about what they like in bed so trying to find the secrets that get a woman hot and bothered is a popular topic. Good lovers and satisfied women every where recommend the following tips and tricks.
- Communicate. Since every woman is different, the best way to pleasure your lady is to ask her what she likes or thinks she might like. She surely has experience with her own sexual pleasure and probably has just as many fantasies as you do. Being able to share your sexual desires with each other will improve your sex life and build trust between you.
- Give her your undivided attention. In society, men are portrayed as much more sexual and assertive than women. This can make it hard for a woman to feel comfortable asking you to focus entirely on her pleasure. Set aside your own immediate satisfaction for the bliss of making your woman feel euphoria. This is particularly important during oral sex. Give her what she wants for as long as she wants it.
- Gettin’ dirty. Statistics vary, but studies agree that more women than you think fantasize about aggressive, dirty sex. Ask your lady beforehand to make sure she’s comfortable with what you have planned, but do ask. Chances are, in between gentler, more loving sex, your woman will be more than willing to have you pin her down and talk dirty in her ear.
- Watch your post sex behavior. Men are infamous for falling asleep right after sex or getting up and leaving when their partner just wants to snuggle. Most women like the feeling of gentle physical contact after sex, especially if they came. Be willing to satisfy this natural desire of hers. Learn to enjoy the quiet, blissful post sex.