What Is Spooning

What is spooning? You want to know what spooning is. Well, here's what spooning isn't. Spooning isn't some made up sappy something or other created by women to test how mushy you could be. Spooning is not something that a real man would tease another man for engaging in with their love interest. Spooning is not a waste of time. Repeat, spooning is not a waste of time. So what is spooning?

Spooning is that very intimate of positions that has very little to do with sex. It involves you laying on your side while your lady does the same. Her back is turned toward you and she presses her body as close as she can to yours. She takes the same shape as you as she lays on her side. You can, and most likely will, put your arm around her body.

Now, before the detractors start hissing and spitting, saying "spooning is some mushy crap," just listen. Spooning is one of the best non sex positions you can be in for a number of reasons. First off, you make her feel secure when you cradle her in the spooning position. Security leads to comfort. Comfort leads to... She can feel your heart beat, and she can feel your breath on her neck. Spooning can start out very innocent and end up being a very erotic journal entry.

Remember, anything that promotes the girl you're with to getting more comfortable with you is a good thing. Don't listen to those idiots out there that have negative views of spooning. Chances are, they don't have anyone to spoon with. Also, once she does get comfortable with you, you'll end up spending quite a lot of time doing the spooning naked. Now, no one needs to tell you of what a great position you're in while you're spooning.

So, spooning is a position that caters to your woman. And if you can't cater to your woman, maybe you should join the rest of the womanless idiots that don't like spooning. For those of you that can endure a little bit of spooning, there are fun times ahead. Enjoy the spooning. It can be a romantic time. It can be an intimate time. And, if you play your cards right, it can be an erotic adventure as well.