Are you an enlightened man? A really enlightened man? If so, you understand that not only do many women love sex toys, but they love when you are comfortable with them loving sex toys. And beyond that, sometimes they might even think about you when they use them. If you’re ready to help your girl out in this department, Amelia McDonell-Parry at The Frisky has your back…

“One of the perks of my job at The Frisky is I get sent a lot of vibrators. This is great, as I avidly practice self-love and think every woman needs to have a vibrator. But with so many vibes on the market — seriously, there are tonssssss – how’s a gal to choose? This flowchart should help! Each of these has been tried and tested by yours truly so get ready to get your buzz on! Details on each model and where to buy, after the jump!”

For her reviews, and a bigger, more complete version of the infographic above, check out Flowchart: What Kind Of Vibrator Do You Need?